Having The WRONG Mindset is the number one reason why people FAIL

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[Tristan Bull]

Hey guys,

This is a really important section because it is the most common reason people fail when they attempt to make money online.

Things like negative self talk, low confidence, low self esteem, negative beliefs, self doubt, procrastination, negative views and beliefs towards money and success etc. will absolutely cripple your success and you are doomed to fail no matter what.

So this section is all about providing the resources to ensure you have the RIGHT mindset.

I highly encourage everyone to share as much information as they can in this section as it really is THAT important.

To your success :-)

Tristan

[Maddi M]

Absolutely. Unless you've got the right mindset, not only will you fail online but fail miserably.

The best training, guide, course, blueprint or whatever, will ultimately fail you unless you've got the right mindset. And if you do have the right mindset, its only a matter of time and reassurance, I promise you - You will succeed online.

Make sure you constantly feed your mind with positivity and work towards achieving the right mindset all the time.

Time: Something we don't have control over but combine it with attitude and reassurance - you are golden.

Reassurance: This forum :-) we are all here to help each other succeed.

I've attached a short report I wrote about the Success Mindset [no opt-in form no strings attached] hope you'll like it.

Maddi M.

edit: the file size was a little too big but you can download it from http://maddiction.com/warrior.html
via this page you can still access the direct download

[Tristan Bull]

Good stuff Maddi thanks for sharing 

Another important thing is to take action.

Remember money likes speed, so when you get an inspired idea or push take action on it and make it happen.

Good share Maddi well done!

[nowimhere]

I agree.

For example with money...

Look at it in terms of abundance instead of scarcity.

A small change in shift like this, and you'll get HUGE results.

[Karan Goel]

Good info Tristian. This reminds me of a famous and very true saying;

People don't fail at IM, it's just that they quite before tasting success.

Karan

[GiveMoreGetMore]

What has helped me to understand the significant importance of the right mindset was the interview Tristan did with this 22yr old spiritual guru dude - http://internetmarketing-coaching.com/forum/tools-resources-and-downloads/interview-with-22yr-old-6-figure-online-marketer/

I think what can also help in improving one's mindset is to 'borrow' and 'surround' yourself with people who have the mindset you want to have, or in general, just have what you want.

One profound statement i learnt from Eben Pagan was that you are almost always the average of your friends in thoughts, feelings, physique, successes and failures.

Then he goes onto say that if you want success in an area of your life, a quick way to attain it is to surround yourself with people who have already achieved that kind of success.

Which is why it is great to have a successful sports, fitness, speaking or money making coach. Because through there own successes and failures, they can guide you through and over obstacles that would otherwise topple you if it weren't for the assistance they give you so you can overcome these obstacles with ease.

I would have loved to have had an internet marketing coach sooner but as we all know they cost s***loads! We are quite fortunate to have Tristan being generous enough to give us what he has to offer, and i plan to make the most of it.

After all if i can't make it with a coach in internet marketing, then there must be some serious issues lol

[Sarah Tan]

I agree.

For example with money...

Look at it in terms of abundance instead of scarcity.

A small change in shift like this, and you'll get HUGE results.

Yes, but it's funny how scarcity works really well in offers

[Maddi M]

Good stuff Maddi thanks for sharing 

Another important thing is to take action.

Remember money likes speed, so when you get an inspired idea or push take action on it and make it happen.

Good share Maddi well done!

Not a problem mate 

I am actually thinking of putting together a few free ebooks re. Personal Development free for fellow coaching members :-) 

[Richard Martin]

Absolutely. Unless you've got the right mindset, not only will you fail online but fail miserably.

The best training, guide, course, blueprint or whatever, will ultimately fail you unless you've got the right mindset. And if you do have the right mindset, its only a matter of time and reassurance, I promise you - You will succeed online.

This is foundational. Mark Twain once wrote about how it's what we bring to the table that truly shapes our experience/outcome. A traveler who is miserable inside can go on a big vacation to Rome, but if he's unhappy inside, he's bringing "ruins to ruins".

You can buy every single WSO in the world, but if you bring the wrong mindset to each of them, they will all fail. 

The right mindset is paramount. It's what we bring to the experience in the way of attitude that determines how thing will play out.

[jazzbassman]

Here's something that really tripped me out, especially on the subject of developing the right mindset toward wealth. Mega star Will Smith while being interviewed on Oprah said even though he's very rich, he yet struggles with his former poverty mentality.

After all these years of success and money, to the shock of Oprah and the some in the audience, he said he was just about to get over his scarcity/poverty mindset.

How much more should those with less cash than he has continue to work on their subconscious beliefs and attitudes about money and success!?!

[Sarah Tan]

yup, those who had been poor, actually do not forget it.

Would this actually help them to save their money instead of splurging on frivolous stuff?

[Kalle]

I recently read an artile about a study which showed that just thinking about the money makes people unhappier. So if someone is trying to achieve his/her financial goals, then (s)he should concentrate his thoughts on the good things that financial freedom brings not on the money itself.

[edpatton]

Yea having the right mindset is the most important thing to have regardless of anything you are trying to do. I looked at a youtube video called will's wisdom and he really gave me some insight and then I discovered tristan's coaching and thats when I really learned a lot about having the right mindset. We must form what we want and how we want it in our head constantly in order to fullful it in reality. And also after that we must act a certain way in order to take the next steps. Then we must be grateful for what we already have and everything we obtain in the future.

[jazzbassman]

Ed, Wise words of wisdom. I've been working through some technical challenges that would have shut me down in the past and I believe it is largely because of a change in mindset toward using internet technology.

[Sarah Tan]

Ed, Wise words of wisdom. I've been working through some technical challenges that would have shut me down in the past and I believe it is largely because of a change in mindset toward using internet technology.

Yes. My mother is totally technology averse, and she will always find something wrong that scares her each time she uses her notebook for work or studies.
e.g. the table shifts to the next page because of margin issues. It's a simple matter which can be solved easily, but she refuses to learn and would try to mobilize the entire family.

Jazzbassman, glad that you have changed your mindset towards internet technology. it will help you to make more money!